Spending the Kids’ Inheritance: The Best Investment You’ll Ever Make
Chapter two …
The grandchildren are squealing as the rollercoaster dives. You glance across at your partner, who’s laughing so hard they can barely breathe. Your daughter’s filming on her phone. The smell of candyfloss and sunscreen hangs in the air. You close your eyes and think, this is what it was all for. For once, your phone is in your bag, not your hand. You’re not a landlord today; you’re just a grandparent making a memory.
You’ve spent a lifetime building a property rental business that pays for moments like this, yet this is the first time you’ve allowed yourself to enjoy one.
For a fleeting second, you wonder why you waited so long.
Then comes the silence.
Perhaps you’re not on that rollercoaster at all. Perhaps you’re still at home, reconciling bank statements, responding to emails, and reviewing repair quotes. The portfolio hums along, the balance sheet looks strong, but the laughter of your family is something you only rarely hear through your phone.
You tell yourself there’ll be time later. A few more years. One more refinance. A stronger market. The problem with that is later has a way of disappearing.
Fast-forward a few decades. Your children are busy with their own lives. The grandchildren are older, glued to their own screens. The estate that once gave you pride has become a puzzle for someone else to solve. Your solicitor is knee-deep in paperwork, your executors are exhausted, and your family (the people you built it all for) are trying to hold a wake and work out what to do with your property business at the same time.
It’s a painful image, but a true one. It also begs the only question that matters: what will they remember about you?
Will it be the remortgage applications, the stress of dealing with rent arrears and bad tenants, or the moments when you stopped counting and started living?
It’s not too late to change that story.
A bit of reflection now could be the catalyst you need to buy you something far rarer than efficiency — time.
The kind of time that lets you take the family to see the Northern Lights, or to enjoy time in your new family villa in the Algarve where the whole family actually sits at the same table during the holidays, and you secretly paid for the flights that some family members couldn’t afford. The kind of time that gives you (and them) stories worth retelling.
Money builds security. Memories build meaning.
If you’ve already done the hard part by building wealth, even on paper rather than cash in the bank, the next step is simpler: decide how you want to live your life and be remembered for the rest of your family’s lives.
If this stirs something in you, start the conversation. That’s what we help you create.
AUTHORS NOTE
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10:40 AM, 10th November 2025, About 6 months ago
Great to put these ideas out there Mark. Makes us all think.
I never thought it would be as hard as it to slow down. I’ve sold/completed on 18 houses so far this year. Hopefully another 10 before 26 Nov budget day.
And same next year.
Never worked so many hours all me 28 year property life as I have this year. I would not like to do this when I’m 70.
Granted, I’ve still gone away, but I’d have rather done nothing.
There’s some valuable life retirement lessons in your article.
What’s the point in having £30 million when u 70 if u in the office every Sat Sun and not got enough time to spend with Grandkids if u only need a certain amount of money to provide all your outgoings u need
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5:19 PM, 10th November 2025, About 6 months ago
Thanks, Mark. My partner and I stopped counting and started living after I was very ill with covid and had the tenant from hell in March 2020, and she had a bit of a heart attack in December of the same year.
After a lifetime of being savers, it’s been both emotionally and physically difficult becoming spenders. It’s not that we didn’t have nice cars, homes, and holidays, but we rarely made impulse purchases just for fun, and always had our eyes on work, being decent landlords, paying off the mortgages, and leaving a decent nest egg for our kids. Well, we’ve done that, and now spend our time on nice holidays and spending time with the kids (when they have time!).
My partner recently gave her remaining rental to her son (and he’s now a landlord… in name only so far!, and has already booked 2 cruises for mum and son time in 2026 and 27. I’ve just agreed to go to the Rugby World Cup in Australia in 2027 with friends and sons. We’ve just bought a nice new car, and have 5 holidays booked for next year. I’m sure we’ll squeeze at least one more in!
I’ve hit 71 and actually hate being a landlord after 25 years largely enjoying it. I’ve started drawing down my pension but trying to remain tax-efficient. But this disgrace of a government has destroyed our plans for inheritance (and will no doubt be back for more in 2 weeks) and our financial advisors have told us to spend more. We are trying.
I’ve just helped my son buy an apartment in Dubai. He’s a property broker and does OK, but ultimately it’s his money and I’d rather see him enjoy it now. My daughter wants to buy a caravan and tow it to a plot in Spain… she’s not good with money! But if I can make her happy in my lifetime, I’m happy.
Remember, there are no pockets in shrouds!